let me clarify why I started this O.P.
I once started an O.P " Is my friend on the way out of the organization?"
I asked the question based on email communication we shared. This is one his emails:-
"just to start , just to confirm I am a Ministerial Servant, my wife and two of my children are pioneers, my other child left home he could not live within the constraints of our faith"
As our personal emailing continued he opened up more about his concerns on the Royal Commision in Australia eat, ect. Sadly I could not bring him to research on this board, but I had hoped he was on the way out. Very sadly when I contacted him about coming to the football with me this Saturday, ( I now live far from watford, but I am going to the match this Saturday) he replied " I go with P...l J....y , and sit next to Matthew H....y and Ri....g h...n." And as these people are witnesses I got the hint I was not welcome. I guess he compromised his moral and ethical conscience for family and friendship.
Personally who am I to judge? But It does make me appreciate the value of sites like this, because it gives those questioning contact with those that have followed through on similar questions in similar circumstances and have had the guts to leave.
The Rebel.